Hi friend!

We're so excited that you're in the verbiage stage of your wedding planning journey with us! We're going to walk you through some of the ways to word your save the date and your invitation, so that you don't feel so lost.

Here are some things to keep in mind...

+ you can never go wrong with tradition

+ you can never go wrong by making your own rules (hah, we're SUPER helpful, right?)

+ if your parents are footing the bill, in part or in full, they often times like a mention (and that's customary, but again, you do you)

+ online rsvps are good for more than just your budget (they also help to save the planet, they're easily trackable, they don't get lost in the mail--#worksmarternotharder)

+ addressing 75 envelopes might sound like a good DIY project, but it's not, it's a bitch

+ creating a wedding website is a RAD idea. It's a hub for all things wedding--registry, RSVPs, things to do for out-of-towners, etc. It's another touchpoint to really get your guests excited!

Take a look at some of our favorite save the dates and invitations from our past weddings, and get your creative juices flowin'. And be sure to head to the bottom for a copy and paste section where you can just plug and play for your own save the date and invitation suite.

Let this serve as a basic template for you to tweak...

So, all you need to do is copy the one you like the best, and then start switching things up--names (duh), date (double duh), location (come on, you already know), and all the other things.

Sample Invitation Wording


Mr. and Mrs. Steven E. Manwell 

request the pleasure of your presence

at the marriage of their daughter

Samantha Josephine


Casey Robert McFarlen 

Saturday, the eighth of June

two thousand and nineteen

At five o’clock in the evening

Within Sodo

Seattle, Washington

Reception to follow


Carson Marie Smallbeck &

Alex Jordan Sobek

invite you to share in their joy at their wedding

Saturday, May 18, 2019

at 4:30 in the afternoon


Their lives have been blessed
by their love for each other
and by their faith in the Lord

Cierra Dawn Hollan


Daniel Charles Purcell

together with their parents
invite you to witness the vows
that will join them as one
on Saturday, the eighteenth of August
two thousand eighteen
at three o'clock in the afternoon

cicle Ridge

 Community Church
4609 Grape Road

Chelan, Washington

You can copy and paste the verbiage above and plug and play to get your own!